Showing posts with label parents. Show all posts
Showing posts with label parents. Show all posts

Monday, December 7, 2020

In A Race To Cope Up With The Trends, Are We Forgetting Our Sanskar?

Evolving does not mean leaving behind people who backed us to be capable and accomplish our life goals. Grandparents form the strongest pillar when it comes to become a person with values. Being in trend is fine but getting away from our roots is not. With time lifestyles have changed; but the concern remains as - is this change profitable to our near and dear ones, especially our family? 

This blog is a sheer attempt by a student at AISSMS Institute of Management which tells you why to cope up with the trends sticking to your sanskars. Give it a read and see how it helps you alter your mindset to a better living.

 

Old Age Home Heart Touching Story

One day visit to an old age home... superior’s office, one couple was also there with their kid and they were having a conversation with the office head...The couple was there to admit the name of their father in that particular old age home and the office head was explaining them the formalities regarding it.

The office head asked the man to fill the form, as he started filling it.

The kid inquired, ” Papa for whom you are filling this form?”

The man replied, “I am filling this form for your grandfather as he’s going to stay here from now onwards”

The kid made a puppy face & questioned again, “Why won’t he stay with us anymore, do I bother him a lot?”

The man laughed and said,” No no my son you don’t bother him, it’s just he’s old now and needs to be taken care of that’s why he’ll stay here, this uncle will take good care of him.”

The kid enthusiastically said to the man, ” Then I’ll also fill one form for you so when you’ll get old I’ll send you here and you’ll be taken good care of because I love you”.

Everybody was shocked to hear this thing because the kid thought old age homes are meant to be taken care of old people but for the mature human like us, the old age homes are for giving up the responsibilities on!!

 

Conclusion

A nuclear family is today’s trend but in a race to follow this trend we forgot that each and every member of the family plays really major role in our lives everybody has something or the other to teach us. 

Our parents or grandparents are not staying with us, it’s we who are staying with them, understand the difference.Our grandparents do not need a stick for the support they need us to be their support. 

It is very rightly said that ” Bachpan or Budhapa ek jaisa hota hai, jaha insan ko bass Kisi Apne ke sath ki jarurat Hoti hai”Let sanskar and trend go hand in hand and respect every human. 


 

Monday, November 25, 2019

The Principal Open Letter To Parents Of Generation Z


The question arises in mind as what is generation Z. In this article a segmentation of generation explained in a very interesting way as,

  • First generation, joined any workplace, it was mainly for survival; the sheer objective was earning for the food, shelter and all the other basic necessities of life.
  • Generation Y, (Parents in Today’s time), had a slight shift of perception, from earning for survival to improving the standard of living. Maybe they wanted a better car or a better house.
  • And at last today’s generation(Z), fondly called as the Millennial; who fortunately have food, shelter and all other securities along with a certain standard of living ensured. So that is not something this generation is seeking as the purpose of their life!



Some Steps if we follow, shall bring out the best in our children,
1. Start with The Acceptance - We must accept the fact that due to the variety of channels available to explore.
2. Hear Them Out - Hear your child out every once in a while, and see how they grow into a mature and sensible individuals.
3. The Collective Effort - If we work together to nurture and grow the potential of our children, this generation has the capability to do wonders no one ever thought were possible.
4. Connect Emotionally - This generation face is the lack of emotional connect. You might give your child everything he/she wants, materialistically, but unknowingly they are not getting what they truly call for, emotionally and to overcome this generation gap by be friends and guardians to our children!

Read Full Article at Open Letter To Parents Of Generation Z

Thursday, May 30, 2019

How to Talk to Children so that they Listen | AISSMS Organizaion


We are well into the Year 2019 now. As parents and teachers, one of our New Year purposes should be about spending more time talking to teenagers.In what way to chat to them so that they pay attention, is what worries us most. This would positively be a stimulating subject for some of us, a non-subject for others, organization and skills but it is, however, a vital one.
There are many more ways to make a chat thrilling for children. Let us begin by using these 5 vital tips which will be most appreciated to us. Let’s begin speaking in the way our offspring would love to listen to us!
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